Hospitality means primarily the creation of free space where the stranger can enter and become a friend instead of an enemy. Hospitality is not to change people, but to offer them space where change can take place. It is not to bring men and women over to our side, but to offer freedom not disturbed by dividing lines. Henri J.m. Nouwen
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Hospitality is not to change people, but to offer them space where change can take place. It is not to bring men and women over to our side, but to offer freedom not disturbed by dividing lines. Imagine if you were caught up in something that you cannot escape from. You desperately need help but the only way out is through the person you are trying to escape. What do you do? Do you go along with the person who is trying to take you out, or do you try to find a way out on your own?

Source: Reaching Out: The Three Movements Of The Spiritual Life

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